Overcoming Mental Obstacles
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Exercise Mental Toughness
When it comes to solving problems, many times we create our own biggest obstacles that can lead to great stress. Whether we know it or not, we tend to put up more barriers that stand in the way of logical or creative solutions. If we define problems narrowly and cling to long-held beliefs through force of habit, our creativity becomes stifled and we become frustrated. The following information may prevent this happening:
Remember that you are smarter than you think. For instance, negative perceptions like "I have never been good at math" will just encourage you to avoid any math-related problems whenever they come up. Instead, face problems head-on. In high pressure situation, people often surprise themselves with their newfound abilities to problem-solve, or look at things from a different perspective and realise they can achieve something different.
Fight the fear of risk-taking. Realise that the world will not come to an end if you try something different. Be willing to take a chance. Ask yourself what the worst possible consequences of your actions would be. It's almost never as bad as you imagine.
Break problems down. Dividing your problems and concerns into smaller pieces makes them more manageable. Doing this will also keep you from feeling overwhelmed or defeated. Solve each part of the problem separately. Move onto the next part only after the first is conquered.
Think in reverse. Start with the end of a process. For example, if you are having trouble explaining or understanding a situation or proposal, think it through from the end to the beginning to see clearly how the whole thing fits together.
Don't reinvent the wheel. Ask questions. Find out what others who have faced the same problems have done to improve their situation or to solve it. Consider whether the same approaches could work for you.
Put your ideas on paper. Diagrams, charts and other conceptual devices often help you see the bigger picture.
It is all about developing a certain mental toughness and discipline to follow through with a routine and make this approach a habit. I found it very helpful to work with a coach, one-on-one sometimes, to get a outside perspective on my own obstacles and receive step-by-step instructions and regular encouragement.
If you feel more self-reliant and want access to a support system regardless of the time of the day, there are mind tools out there, programs on CDs and MP3s that can guide you through the same process.
How to Overcome Anxiety: What is stress?
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I work in a hospital environment and my work day is normally 12hr, but some days I will work 15-16hrs.
Thank goodness I only work 3 days a week, and your article will diffidently help me on those unforeseen 15hr days.
Very good slice of dealing wtih Mental issues - solid points, well laid out.
Jason










CharlesSeymourJr 3 years ago
Thanks for such great information. I can still remember a professor talking about "chunking it down." That was his phrase for taking problems and making them into small chunks which could more easily be handled. Several of your points helped identify that too. Thumbs up! Charlie